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<lastBuildDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 23:46:20 GMT</lastBuildDate><image><title>BEEAFRICAN.COM all News Posts</title><url><![CDATA[http://spruz.websnapr.com?size=S&url=http://beeafricanent.com]]></url><link>http://www.beeafricanent.com</link></image><item><title><![CDATA[Meet Bassey Akan,the Nigerian Girl with Waist Length Hair]]></title><description><![CDATA[<strong><img alt="" src="http://fotos.fotoflexer.com/4173d016c60647cc7594e49c9bab5f35.jpg" style="width: 226px; height: 166px; float: left;" />One of the major issues that African women face in terms of beauty and style is hair care, more precisely hair growth and maintenance.</strong></p>
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	In many attempts to grow our natural hair there have been a lot of failed attempts and rumoured concoctions including peanut butter and beer, palm oil and flour, vinegar and pepper and even urine (eek!)â€¦the list goes on and it gets even more ridiculous.</div>
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	The simple truth is that contrary to popular belief â€“ African hair is simply fabulous! It grows in its natural or relaxed state. With this knowledge it is easy to actually take out the time and dedication you need to get your hair to whatever length you wish. It is a possible battle to win and instead of spending large amounts of money buying, fixing and maintaining artificial hair, you could spend less than half of that developing your natural tresses.</div>
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	To further convince you that growing your hair is possible, we found a Nigerian girl who did just that! Bassey Akan runs the LushStrands Blog â€“ http://lushstrands.blogspot.com/. She successfully grew her hair to an impressive waist length in 9 months. Keep reading for some tips and insight to how you can grow yours.</div>
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	There is a general misconception that only mixed race African women can grow really long hair. Tell us about your heritage.</div>
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	I am purely Nigerian. My Dad is from Akwa Ibom and my mum from Cross River.</div>
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	Why did you decide to â€œgrowâ€ your hair ?</div>
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	While in University, there were several black girls who had naturally long hair. Granted they were all mixed but I just felt that there was no logical reason why I couldnâ€™t have long hair too. I mean, my hair was growing. The fact that I had to get my roots done every 6 to 8 weeks was proof that my hair was growing so it was only logical to expect my hair to get longer over time. However, as is the case with some of us, my hair was a perpetual chin length bob.</div>
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	I started researching black hair care, stopped depending on my stylist and started learning how to care for my hair myself and within weeks I was seeing results. This motivated me to keep going and I havenâ€™t looked back since.</div>
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	With respect to the procedure, it can be categorized in 3 ways:</div>
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	a) Technique: Making sure to comb gently, choosing protective/low manipulation styles, detangling only while wet and saturated with conditioner, combing from tip to root, wrapping with a silk scarf at night, moisturizing and sealing the hair often.</div>
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	b) Products: Making sure to use products that meet my hairs needs. I have very dry hair so using moisturizing and lubricating products is key for me to prevent breakage.</div>
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	c) Tools: Making sure to use the right tools e.g wide toothed combs with no seams or rough edges that can snag and/or rip my hair, using only high quality hot tools that distribute heat evenly and using very sharp scissors when trimming to prevent jagged edges which can cause split ends etcâ€¦</div>
]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/Meet-Bassey-Akanthe-Nigerian-Girl-with-Waist-Length-Hair/blog.htm ]]></link><pubDate>Sat, 27 Apr 2013 13:31:46 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/Meet-Bassey-Akanthe-Nigerian-Girl-with-Waist-Length-Hair/blog.htm ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[My house girl is tempting me, what should I do? â€“ Man Seeks Help]]></title><description><![CDATA[<strong><img alt="" src="http://fotos.fotoflexer.com/36fd72e19fc083be325aade9605e6901.jpg" style="width: 226px; height: 138px; float: left; " />I will simply go straight to the point, as I would not want to give very explicit details about myself. This is for some obvious reasons. My wife is very sharp, I mean, she is such an intelligent woman and can easily trace this true confession to me. For the fact that I love her so much, I cannot let a thing fall in-between us. That is why I have kept this as top-secret till today; but I will have to let this out of the bag.</strong></p>
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	Iâ€™m not oblivious of the fact that most issues of this nature are blamed on the men whom most of us see as womanizers; but mine is a different thing entirely. Iâ€™m not a womanizer. I have tried everything possible to make sure that this girl-my house girl leaves my house, but my wife will always insist she stays.</div>
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	Iâ€™m a pastor, but I also work as a civil servant. I would have loved to write further about where I live, but for the same reason why I canâ€™t mention my name, I canâ€™t tell you where Iâ€™m writing from.</div>
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	This young lady was brought to my house by my wife sometimes in 2010, and had just completed her secondary education last year. She is supposed to pick up a form for her higher education because she is related to my wife; distant relation, sort of.</div>
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	Frankly, she has been very good, and has been taking care of my only daughter since my wife put to bed late last year. Her presence is a big relief to me and wife because we are both very busy people. My wife works with a bank, and sometimes come home around 8-9pm.</div>
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	Lately, this young girl has summoned courage to seduce me; to be sincere, she is tempting me.</div>
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	I often return to the house ahead of my wife. Sometimes, because of hold-up and other issues, I will get in around 5-6pm. She started by running to embrace me with her transparent-short gown to welcome me each time I knock, on arrival. I was shocked the very day she did that. I felt so embarrassed. â€œEven if I had traveled to spaceâ€¦hun! This one is just too muchâ€¦ hun!â€ I soliloquized in my bedroom after she had dropped my office bag and ran out to get my food. This continued for 3 weeks. Sometimes, her boobs will just slip out of her â€˜topâ€™ and she will simply apologize. My wife has never met her on that gown as she wears another cloth when itâ€™s almost time for my wife to return. I have developed double minds about her. I have had different evil thoughts since this whole thing started. The one that happened last was the way she sat facing me, with her legs wide opened. I left the food that I was eating and walked to the bathroom to do nothing in particular. I had thought she would adjust as soon as I returned, but she didnâ€™t budge. I think I fell into her trap finally that day. I almost had it with her when I grabbed her, and she jumped at me. We started that regrettable romance before God intervened with the sharp cry of my baby. That was what saved the day.</div>
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	The next day, I had told my wife that we should send her away, but she vehemently refused to accept my suggestion. She had asked me to give some reasons why we should send her away, and I had told her that she was getting so stubborn and lazy; hence, she is as good as no House-help.</div>
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	My wife who claimed she had never experienced that had accused me of formulating things against the lady. She told me that I wanted her out of the house because I had seen that she will soon secure admission into the higher institution, and I will soon begin to pay for her school fees. I couldnâ€™t tell her the truth, because something tells me it will be disastrous. I just felt I could handle the matter in the most professional way. But right now, things have gone out of hands since the past 2 weeks. I have done virtually everything that can be considered dirty with her except that I have not done it with her yet. Whatâ€™s keeping me from doing it is my conscience and for the fact that I canâ€™t do that in my matrimonial home.</div>
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	That sin will be so grievous, I know. She had asked me repeatedly last week if she can meet me in any of the hotels around town this weekend since my wife will be around then. She has just Saturday and Sunday to take care of her hair and visit friends, and she wants to use that opportunity to have me all to herself. Now, Iâ€™m contemplating on this issue. All I need is your advice; Saturday is just 5 days from today, and I canâ€™t make up my mind on what to do. I love my wife, but I think Iâ€™m becoming so foolish in the name of being faithful. Please, tell me; should I do it or not? It has gotten to the level where I cannot tell my wife the truth because she wonâ€™t even believe, since I had told her a different story before. She will see it as blackmail. Your reaction will either encourage me or discourage me, even though my mind beats faster, and something tells me to do it. Should I?</div>
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]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/My-house-girl-is-tempting-me-what-should-I-do--Man-Seeks-Help/blog.htm ]]></link><pubDate>Fri, 26 Oct 2012 11:30:00 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/My-house-girl-is-tempting-me-what-should-I-do--Man-Seeks-Help/blog.htm ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nigerian Teenage Girls In Show Of Shame (PHOTOS)]]></title><description><![CDATA[<strong><img alt="" src="http://fotos.fotoflexer.com/d25aaa2b8dee3edbb72e65c3cc4d12a3.jpg" style="width: 226px; height: 150px; float: left; " />Can you spot the difference in the expression of the faces of the girls in both pictures?Â </strong>Well,the teenagers in the first pic are having fun while trying to expose themselves...and loving it!!!</p>
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	The teenagers in the second pic are actually exposing themselves and pretending not to enjoy it...</div>
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	Either way,they are all enjoying the act of exposing themselves at a very "small" age....SHAME!!!</div>
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]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/Nigerian-Teenage-Girls-In-Show-Of-Shame-PHOTOS/blog.htm ]]></link><pubDate>Sun, 7 Oct 2012 15:26:15 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/Nigerian-Teenage-Girls-In-Show-Of-Shame-PHOTOS/blog.htm ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[The 10 Hottest Sex Tips All Women Wish You Knew]]></title><description><![CDATA[<strong><img alt="" src="http://fotos.fotoflexer.com/eb46bc98ca510f0cb10b5f9d86abd163.jpg" style="width: 226px; height: 118px; float: left; " />Over the years, weâ€™ve surveyed tens of thousands of women about their wants, needs, desires, and wishesâ€”in bed and out. And theyâ€™ve eagerly answered our questions. All of them. At length. In that same time, weâ€™ve also talked to sex researchers, therapists, surrogates, and aficionados. So weâ€™re confident when we tell you that if you want to meet more women, spice up your sex life, and be the best lover your girlfriend or wife has ever had, you must read this list. Consider these rules the 50 Hottest Sex Tips All Women Wish You Knew.</strong></p>
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	<strong>1.Say the Hottest Word</strong></p>
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	The hottest word you can say to a woman in bed? â€œYou.â€ Say it often. Itâ€™s the difference between â€œthat feels wonderfulâ€ and â€œyou make me feel wonderful.â€</div>
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	In the doggy-style position, you can increase clitoral contact by having her lift her butt up or spread out your legs to move down so you can touch the supersensitive vaginal wall. Then reach around to play with her clitoris using your fingers. (Use a small vibrator for extra intensity.)</div>
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	Explore new regions. The base of her spine is Sensation Central. Gently stroke and kiss her belly just above the pubic hairline. Sex becomes about discovery, not a destination.</div>
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	<strong>5.Go Slower for a Faster Response</strong></div>
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	Use your hands to bring her close to climax before penetration, which will make an orgasm during intercourse much more likely. Hereâ€™s a new way to use your hands: Prop yourself up with pillows and have her sit so that sheâ€™s facing away from you and leaning back against your chest. Reach around and use your fingertips or the flat of your hand along and between her legs in up-and-down, side-to-side, and figure-8 moves.</div>
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	This is a new eraâ€¦Itâ€™s the era of the woman in charge. The aggressive, man eating woman who takes no prisoners. The woman on top.</div>
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	It may seem exaggerated but look around you. It wonâ€™t take you long to spot the ladies that Iâ€™m talking about-confident, tough, smart, aggressive, successful, in managerial positions, directors on multi-national boards, marketing or brand managers, making lots more money than men, including their own husbands. Itâ€™s now common place to find the wife earning two or three times more than her husband. The power base has shifted, and now its common place to find the man having no choice but to accept his position as ceremonial â€˜head of the houseâ€™.</div>
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	We see these powerful women everywhere; in traffic driving the biggest and flashiest SUVâ€™s you could imagine. Oh, and if youâ€™re expecting her to give way on the road you have another thing coming. She drives just as rough as the matatu drivers, maybe worse. She has learnt well, too well actually. She has road rage, and when she throws out obscene hand gestures and shouts out invectives in traffic, you better move out of her way, or experience the wrath of a woman who doesnâ€™t give a (bleep)</div>
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	This powerful lady doesnâ€™t see why she should wait for a man to do things for her, she takes what she wants. His money is their money, but her money is her money. Donâ€™t get it twisted, she still wants to be treated like a lady and spoilt, but on her own terms. Take her out, buy her drinks, shop for her, take her on holiday, just donâ€™t bank anything in return, unless of course she feels sufficiently philanthropic.</div>
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	Youâ€™ll see her in the corporate boardrooms, barking instructions to her male subordinates, as they scamper for cover. Â She is the queen bee, a feared boss, and she can be as cutthroat and ruthless as any man in office. If she is eyeing that top position, God forbid if you get in her way. In the past she used to sleep with the boss to get the top job, but nowadays her work ethic, skills, leadership, and straightforwardness is what puts her in poll position. She no longer needs just good looks to get ahead, all she has to do is stare down her male opponent and the job is hers. She is cold blooded and you know she is willing to do whatever it takes to get ahead.</div>
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	Donâ€™t ever think of keeping one of these ladies waiting, whether itâ€™s for a social fuction or a meeting. Stroll in 15 minutes late and youâ€™ll get a verbal lashing; she has things to do and doesnâ€™t entertain tardiness. Patience Iâ€™m afraid is not one of her virtues. Her time is valuable, and is she says 2 pm you better believe she expects you there at 2pm. The flip side of the coin is that If youâ€™re taking her on a date or social function gentlemen, be prepared to wait..and waitâ€¦.and waitâ€¦it takes time to look that beautiful. Confuse yet? Get used to itâ€¦</div>
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	Many of these women on top find it hard to get husbands or boyfriends. They say most men are intimidated by their success, their money and their power. Â The only men who can handle them are the ones who make more money, most of whom are married. So what to do? The options are few and far between-either have an affair with a successful married man and stay commitment free, or get a young stud who can satisfy their physical needs.</div>
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	When it comes to sex, she is more empowered than ever. These power ladies are not â€˜chipsedâ€™, they are the ones doing the â€˜chipsingâ€™! They identify their target at the club, go in for the swift kill, and take him home. In the wee hours of the morning the â€˜preyâ€™ is hastily dismissed before he gets too comfortable. He has served his purpose, and depending on his performance she will decide whether to summon him back for a repeat performance another day, or discard him altogether. Next night, different victim. The roles have been reversed; the hunter-thatâ€™s men-have become the hunted. Youâ€™re just a statistic now. Sound familiar?</div>
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	So are women becoming the new men? Â They certainly have understood how men play the game, and perfected the craft so that they are masters at what they do. Everything a man can do, they can do equally well, sometimes better. They can be tough leaders in the corporate world, relentless, cutthroat and merciless, just like men. You want to cheat on her? She can do that better than you too, without getting caught, ever.</div>
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	Men, make way for the woman on topâ€¦..</div>
]]></description><link><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/Woman-on-Top-Are-Women-the-new-Men.9-29-2012/blog.htm ]]></link><pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2012 08:34:25 GMT</pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true"><![CDATA[ http://beeafricanent.com/pt/Woman-on-Top-Are-Women-the-new-Men.9-29-2012/blog.htm ]]></guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Can withholding sex tame him?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<img alt="" src="http://fotos.fotoflexer.com/52d27c3e04d535deffe11f46c1b56515.jpg" style="width: 468px; height: 345px; " /></p>
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	<strong>It is an all-women salon. The women have let loose, after all, it is just them, no man in sight. As they have their hair done, some of them share their marital problems.Â One woman, who is having her hair braided, uses two of her fingers to clear the hair from her face so that she can contribute to the conversation.</strong></div>
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	â€œMy husband can never pick up the children from school. From work, he heads straight to the bar. We have fought over and over about this. Yesterday, I was mad because I had a lot of work on my desk, but he still refused to pick up the children,â€ she said.</div>
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	With a sly smile, another woman advises: â€œJust deny him sex and he will change.â€</div>
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	Instantly, every other woman has something to say and they excitedly narrate their experiences.</div>
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	â€œOur two-year-old daughter sleeps in her own room, but when I want to punish him, I carry her to our bed. I make sure she sleeps between us and I sleep as far as I can, while facing the wall. After only three days, he will be down on his knees, apologising for whatever wrong he did.â€</div>
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	Another says: â€œThat is not good enough, he can remove the baby as you sleep. I move to the childrenâ€™s bedroom.â€</div>
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	The other chips in: â€œI carry my series to the sitting room and when everyone else has gone to bed, I start watching them and fall asleep. And, of course, no sex!â€</div>
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	Like these women, Halima Namakula, the co-host of Akasaale Kâ€™omukwano, a show that tackles love issues on Bukedde Television, says for centuries, women have withheld sex from their husbands as punishment for misdemeanors.</div>
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	â€œIt is our main weapon and it often yields results,â€ she boasts. Namakula notes that women can testify to the punitive actionâ€™s efficiency.</div>
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	While Namakula supports the act of withholding sex to tame men, the Reverend Denis Odoi, a counsellor at World Vision International, detests the action. â€œWhen you close your arms to him, another opens them.â€</div>
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	He says it does not matter what you are going through, your body belongs to your husband and his to you. Withholding sex should only be through mutual consent.</div>
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	Odoi notes that women punish their husbands in many ways, including being aggressive and shutting them out of their lives completely, none of which is the right way of dealing with challenges in marriage.</div>
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	â€œSex can make or break marriage. No marriage lasts without it. It is as good as dead,â€ Odoi warns.</div>
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	He says withholding sex may make the man give up on trying to work out things, which may push him into the arms of another woman. â€œAnd when it gets to that, you cannot rule out sexually-transmitted diseases,â€ he adds.</div>
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	Odoi advises that when angry, a couple should sit and talk. The easiest way to do so, he says, is by agreeing on a particular day to discuss all the issues.</div>
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	â€œBe friends. Friends meet and communicate on a regular basis through text, phone and email. The more you talk, the better,â€ he says.</div>
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	Similarly, Joseph Musaalo, a counsellor at the Uganda Christian University in Mukono, warns: â€œSex is addictive. It is like alcohol and drugs. When a man cheats on his partner, it might be hard for him to stop. And by the time the wife adjusts her ways, it may be too late.â€</div>
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	Michael, a salesman, says every man will testify to having been denied sex. When this happens, he says, he tries to make his wife happy.</div>
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	â€œFor example, I bathe the children or keep them busy as she goes about house chores. Before long, she will be smiling and I can get what I want.â€</div>
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	However, Mwesigwa, his colleague, is indifferent. â€œEven if she denied me sex, I would feel nothing. We have been together for almost 14 years. It is not a big deal if she declines to have sex with me. I would not even think of forcing myself on her because it is hard to enjoy sex if your partner does not want it,â€ he says.</div>
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	Komakech, a mechanic, warns: â€œDeny him sex and he will secretly get it outside, whether you like it or not, no matter how religious you think he is. This is the simple truth.â€</div>
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	Would you deny your husband sex?</div>
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	Ruth Birungi, secretary</div>
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	It depends on the situation. If I am too angry, I may deny him sex to discipline him. But if he apologises, I give in.</div>
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	Florence Nalule, shop-keeper</div>
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	I would deny him sex to express my anger. If he apologises, I forgive him and we reconcile.</div>
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	Fiona Mpagi, university student</div>
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	I would not deny my husband sex because he can use it as an opportunity to sleep with other women. Before you know it, you have a co-wife.</div>
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	Explore all options before a sex embargo</div>
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	Denying a partner sex is an age-old disciplinary measure in families. It was done by both men and women. And in a polygamous setting, wives were often hurt so much by it.</div>
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	Today, couples still use it to punish each other, especially because society frowns on such traditional forms of punishment as beating, expelling or starving.</div>
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	Women may give it preference because their alternatives are limited. Sex is a coupleâ€™s way of connecting emotionally, spiritually and physically. Not only is it referred to as the glue that holds a marriage together, but it is also the only activity that separates the coupleâ€™s relationship from others. That is why it is a big statement when it is withdrawn.</div>
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	Denial of sex can be a direct embargo to include all forms of romance, which implies a state of war, where you risk abandoning all other communication, except quarrels and arguments.</div>
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	The relationship can remain amorous, but when it comes to the final sexual fulfilment, you remind him of the sanction and back off.</div>
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	This can only be afforded by empowered women, who know they are protected from undue aggressive response.</div>
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	The third form can be done passively, by just presenting the body for sex without being active.</div>
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	The man will notice that your sexual offering has changed. This is common in places where the woman has no power to refuse.</div>
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	Justification</div>
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	Women have argued that this is the logical step, after sulking has failed. That men are â€˜blindâ€™ and need to be denied sex, before they realise that something is wrong and start negotiating for a solution.</div>
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	Whether right or wrong, depends on many factors: It may be inevitable, like after discovery of infidelity, testing HIV-positive, bringing home an STD, undergoing STD treatment or refusal to test for HIV or STDs and when you are sick.</div>
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	Other factors, depending on the severity of the situation, include being emotionally hurt, scared or in feats of anger, protesting his insistence on rough sex, refusal to bathe and other hygiene reasons.</div>
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	Considerations</div>
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	But before you decide to â€˜loadshedâ€™ him, first be convinced that your reason is genuine, be sure he really loves you (sexual rejection is appreciated by people in love, who want the relationship to continue on a fine road, otherwise you will be justifying his infidelity) and be able to precisely predict his reaction.</div>
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	Do it only if you must, considering that it is also a type of sexual and emotional abuse. It is one acceptable ground for divorce in many countries and it is not only punishing him, but also yourself.</div>
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	Never do it to win an argument, because you want to control him, to blackmail him into selfish projects (you do not want your sex to appear as a payment for work done), to assert herself or because you are not enjoying it. There are many better ways to communicate dissatisfaction in sex.</div>
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	<strong>Findings in a recent research suggest that those couples, who donâ€™t indulge themselves in sexual activities during the initial years of their relation, are at benefit. They will see the difference, as they proceed further in their relation.</strong></div>
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	Researchers from the Cornell University conducted a survey, in which they asked questions to 600 married couples and those in live-in relationships, regarding the levels of happiness and contentment.</div>
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	Further, they were inquired about their communication, their agreements on a single issue, emotional attachments with one another, sexual satisfaction levels and at what time they indulged into a sexual relationship. Even financial aspects and a few other issues were included.</div>
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	Moreover, 28% of the couples asserted that they waited for almost six months before engaging in sex, while 33% affirmed that they engaged during the first month.</div>
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	Researchers said, â€œCouples who kept things above the belt for at least the first six months of their relationship scored higher in every category analyzedâ€.</div>
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	The results have been published in the Journal of Marriage and Family, which emphasized that introducing sexual life during the budding stages of a relationship, can result in low levels of satisfaction and happiness.</div>
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	On the other hand, those who gave their relationship space and time, and gave each other enough time to understand one another, were largely at benefit.</div>
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	â€œIhe Nemeâ€ has slowly become the poster song from 2Face Idibia most recent â€œAway & Beyondâ€ album. Iâ€™m sure itâ€™s no surprise to most that a video was in order. And with a Clarence Peters directed video in the works, hereâ€™s an exclusive sneak peek at the video shoot!</p>
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	So with this in mind, no wonder that more and more women are trying to make their booties bigger. The problem is just to find out how.</div>
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	Ok, so I have made my point. You know all this. So you want to know, how can I make my ass bigger? How can I make men turn heads to look at me when I pass, and make other girls jealous instead of the other way around?</div>
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	Just visulize how sexy you would look with a big round ass,stretching tightly against your jeans or a nice fitting dress. It possible to get that in as little as 6-8 weeks time, if you only know how to do it.</div>
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	So how do you do it? How do you make your ass big, round and eyecatching? Do you use some kind of cream? Take pills? Butt injections or butt implants? I would say none of those would be a very good idea.</div>
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	Though creams and pills might give you some results you really need to do more than that. The buttocks are made up of muscles and pills and creams won't make your muscles bigger.Also the results of these products vary widely, some women say they get great results others say they don't get any results at all.</div>
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	Butt injections might have become popular and they give good results. But is it really worth it? It does cost a fair bit of money and it can be risky too. No matter how much you want a bigger butt, don't risk it. Butt implants are even more dangerous and the results do not look very natural either.</div>
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	So what do you have to do? First of all you need to exercise. The buttocks are made up mostly of muscle and therefore a really good butt workout will make your butt bigger, rounder and firmer.</div>
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	You need a complete butt workout though, it is not enough to do some squats or lunges to get a big ass. You need more than that. You need a program designed to make your butt bigger. A great combination of exercises that really targets the buttocks, giving them no choice but to grow.</div>
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	This does not mean that you have to spend hours working out in the gym. There are plenty of exercises that can be performed at home, using little or no equipment. Â It does not require that much time either even though the results will come quicker if you put more effort into it.Â </div>
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	So, a really good butt workout is essential in order to get a big ass. This the most important part in getting a big booty. However there is much more to building a bigger butt than exercise.</div>
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	If you want a really BIG ASS you can also add fat to it. The combination of fat and muscle will make the booty big round and really wellshaped. There are some foods that can help you to put fat on your butt without adding fat to the rest of your body. You can read more about this on my page; foods for a bigger butt.Â </div>
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	There is a butt building program called Bigger butt secrets. This is a complete "buttbuilding program" going over not only exercise but also diet as well as many other important aspects on how to acheive a bigger butt. Click Here to read my review of Bigger butt Secrets</div>
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	So, all that is left is to get started. I would suggest you get a copy of the Bigger Butt Secrets and then carefully follow the instructions it gives. The advice and methods given in this program has been proven to work very well. All methods in it are natural, inexpensive but effective.Â </div>
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	The bigger butt secrets retails for 37$ and comes with a 60 day money back guarantee. So you can buy it and try it out and if you are not happy with it you will get a refund. To my knowledge this has never happend because it really does work. You can get it HERE and good luck.</div>
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	<strong>Hello Professor</strong> . Before talking about that famous point D, tell us about how to approach his partner in bed? It seems that many men are struggling to start. Laugh.</div>
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	<strong>Hello</strong> . It is true that it is not easy, but you have to do it tactfully. And as you know, the conversation is a form of communication, touch as well. By a caress, a pressure in the right place at the right time, a gesture, a way to keep his partner, is expressed inconceivable amount of emotions and feelings. Women are ultra-receptive to it and most do not even know that this is possible. You should know immerse themselves in the report, be one with his breath and movements ... her pelvis which lifts ... with him, pushing, pulling, to annoy, punish, reward her and make her lose means.</div>
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	Namely to wait, to ride his desire to resist it. Overlooked at the time the erogenous zones classics but always turn around. Just under her breasts, above, in the crease of her thigh, kissing his lips, playing on the pressure, put one hand flat on his belly, and take control. Make him understand that he gives her pleasure when it wants, it is entirely our thank you. Insist on it.</div>
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	Be tactile. Use his hands to his lips, his fingers, he spread her thighs with yours, hold her wrists firmly immobilized. The kiss also very important. And forget a little kisses all over, they prefer the use of the tongue, lips that brush, finger that touches or that force. A mixture of sweetness and possession.</div>
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	Be everywhere at once, on her and around her, the mother and wrap, weigh about it without choking.</div>
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	<strong>Hello Professor</strong> . Many do not seem to hear that G-spot they are struggling to locate. Can you give us a clear description?</div>
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	Hello . Let's say the G-spot would be located approximately 5 cm in the interior of the upper wall of the vagina that is when the girl is lying on her back, this is the part up. You should know that this area can vary from 1 to 2 cm depending on the girl. I do not teach you much ... but the technique is to slide a finger first wets it well, and whenever possible, another (depending on the size of the fingers, if you have fingers that loggers risk of hurting her!) and bend them at the area so that the fingertip is in contact with the G-spot Follows a meeting location according to his feelings of her screams and moans to tell you ... it comes with practice.</div>
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	<strong>Hello Professor</strong> . Tell us now from the point D. Where is he? And how to explore? Would it be the famous G-spot?</div>
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	<strong>Hello</strong> . Well no. This is another erogenous zone, which is also on the woman's vagina, but located much deeper and in a number of women (not all, some seem to be less sensitive than others), causes of orgasms overpowered. Although stimulated, it sends directly to the women seventh heaven.</div>
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	This point D, also called "deep point" would be located a the bottom of the vagina near the cervix. It has two particularly sensitive areas: the front and rear.</div>
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	To explore it, your finger inside the vagina of your partner should be facing you. Point D is not so profound than that, it is easily accessible with a finger.</div>
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	Bend your middle finger, and fingertips, looking for an area roughly the size of a coin, a little hollow, the interior is smooth with slight horizontal ribbing, often quite marked. According to the textbooks of anatomy, this area is called "cervical cavity." If you move too far, the texture will change. Your finger will not be the right place.</div>
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	And when you find that zone, press it, and gently pull your finger out: the partner should respond immediately. Rub the area with the tip of your finger, and your wife should enjoy very quickly. The most sensitive part is the outline of the area. Pressing your finger down and stimulates the contours.</div>
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	Note that the recommended position to stimulate this area, is that the woman starts on all fours behind her (it is less likely to hurt him if you do it in front).</div>
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	<strong>Hello Doctor</strong> . Why prefer an orgasm with the point D with the clitoris?</div>
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	<strong>Hello</strong> . It's simple. After a clitoral orgasm, the clitoris becomes too sensitive to be stimulated again: Party is over! By cons, with Part D, you can bet on orgasms burst. Once completed, there all over again! So we took the opportunity!</div>
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	Hello Professor . Tell us to finish, this position "cat and mouse" that women are very appreciative!</div>
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	Hello . In your opinion, why the cat plays he at length with the mouse before you swallow it? Because by doing so, the cat brought tension and desire for satisfaction is even more intense. Now do not worry, the position of the cat and mouse is not sadistic. Unlike the unforgiving nature, this mouse there also plays with the cat. First find a carpet as thick as possible, because everything goes on all fours and the game can get them to walk around the room. Depending on the mood, a bright light, dim or dark can agree.</div>
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	The woman finally the mouse, turning his back to the big cat that comes close on all fours to his buttocks. Sensing the approach of cat, mouse buttocks are raised, but the thighs are tight to prevent penetration. The woman feels the approach of the great beast and her clitoris will swell and her vagina is wet. At this stage it is not forbidden in tomcat to find some animal instinct and slightly scratched his partner, first on the back staying away, and then on the sides in approaching slowly but surely. It can chew earlobes of its prey. The game pushed the hunter and his prey to a level of excitement orbital.</div>
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	Serigne Samba Ndiaye : PhytothÃ©rapeute : site : www.sambamara.com, skype : sambamara Facebook: Serigne Samba Ndiaye</div>
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